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How To Get Started In A BDSM Session?

And although until a few years ago these practices were taboo, socially frowned upon and even considered by the scientific community as paraphilias or sexual perversions, in recent years they have become very fashionable, among other reasons thanks to the overwhelming success of 50 Shades of Gray, reason why the accomplishment of this type of practices has become quite normalized, at least in its most lights or "vanilla" modes (within the BDSM session community they refer to "normal" sexual relations as vanilla).

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And it is that as some studies point out, it is calculated that between 30 and 50% of the adult population have fantasies related to BDSM , although the really difficult thing is to take that first step of putting those fantasies into real practice, since it is a path full of fears and insecurities, so it is calculated that only between 7 and 14% ever try to realize these fantasies.

Although we believe that here they have not included all those people who have practiced a BDSM session of walking around the house , those games so innocent but at the same time as exciting as letting yourself be tied at the head of the bed, blindfolding your partner or giving a how many spankings in the middle of sexual activity.


This post is therefore dedicated to all those couples who want to start in all or some of the practices that are part of BDSM , perhaps because you have noticed that spanking your ass makes you really horny, or because you have discovered that nails are nailed Very strong on your back excite you more than anything else, or because the feeling of feeling tied up and immobilized @ subjected to the wishes of your partner makes you very much ... or simply because you are looking for new sensations that encourage your sex life .. .

Whatever it is that has brought you here, I want you to know that any reason is good to break the monotony in bed and discover new pleasures and who knows, perhaps, to confess to your partner vices or fantasies that you never dared to ask ... That is why we welcome you to this INITIATION TO THE WORLD OF BDSM .

The first thing is not to scare you, as we have already said BDSM encompasses a whole series of sexual practices that do not have to be connected, there will be people who love spanking but who hate the bondage roll, or people who like the feeling of latex on his body but not domination games ... that is, there is no established way of practicing BDSM, each person has their own tastes so they are free to experiment at your own pace ...

But first, the most boring, but undoubtedly the most important part of the BDSM session ... a few basic rules.

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THE STANDARDS

BDSM session, especially for those who are just starting out, must be taken as a game, but it is a very very exciting game, although like any game it must be governed by CLEAR AND PRECISE STANDARDS , which must ALWAYS be respected, and I put it in bold and underlined because in the world of BDSM the physical and even mental health of the person comes into play, so these rules are sacred.

As this first post is going to be a guide to practice a very light BDSM,we are simply going to tell you some of the rules that we consider most basic, for all those who are interested in increasing the intensity of their sessions or starting fully in the BDSM session world here I leave you aMuch more detailed Tips Guide .